REPUBLISHING OF WHEN TERRIBLE THINGS HAPPEN TO MEANINGFUL INDIVIDUALS - ESPECIALLY FOR DENISE (Update Dates are Below)

REPUBLISHING OF WHEN TERRIBLE THINGS HAPPEN TO MEANINGFUL INDIVIDUALS - UPDATED ESPECIALLY FOR DENISE!

[This update is for the cause of my late longtime Dear Friend, DENISE MADDOX (even though originally written for another dear friend with the posts under this title being used to underscore how very remarkable life is as compared to what those who make IMMENSE and UNENVIABLE decisions that result in determining outcomes for others state by their actions, which the listing in the following Historical ONLY Conservery Blog post is intended to highlight WHEN SACRIFICING IS IMPLEMENTED BY DECREE.- 10/21/2019) with the flower/planting previously mentioned represented by the tender weeks old deer being exposed to life in our environment,  to let it be known that this very dear sensitive friend's cause even though challenging for this then student, was none-the-less "taken up" because I came to know her as the sincere, warm & considerate individual who was notable for the choices made in spite of the circumstances she experienced (that are implied in the Historical ONLY SociallMedia Issues Blog post COMPANIONSHIP – A PERSONAL VIEWPOINT 6/28/2019). Please see this as my concerned way of stating that Denise deserved better than was meted out (namely "mistreatment by those who should have been protective of her) from this friend's perspective (6/28/2019).


Like the tender planting (shown here)
that survived dew & raindrops,
and cradle the stormy water in its petals for a winged passerby to take a sip;
so too did my dear friend Denise offers a willing hand to assist even if beset by
those with an idle lip.
Therefore, it was very troubling to learn that her life was consumed by a many a "traumaster",
that definitely did NOT turn her into a "gangster",
it was my then hope to assist her with a full recovery,
in spite of what had left her without many times of laughter.
How do we go on when under what isn't banter?
by lending a hand to another & NOT FOCUSING on the collective whispers
of the prevailing well-wisher,
who often speak from positions of "power", no matter.
My closing wish for the tender girl of my student years,
is that Denise will be a tender flower,
in spite the circumstances she endured that can be compared to being beset by stalkers,
who chose to move on instead of remaining as if she was like unmotivated talkers,
continually searching & instead she gained the strength to become a very careful supporter.